Life is filled with challenges. As we get older we come to realize that those challenges to the very things than shape us and make us who we are ,it is the same with the challenges that come with friendship .
When we are fared with a challenge, we usually have two choices . we can try to beat it off, or we can decide that the thing presenting the challenge isn’t worth the trouble and call it quits. Although there are certainly times when calling it quits it the right thing to do, in most cases all that is needed is commitment and communicable.
When we are communed to something, it means that no matter how painful or how uncomfortable something is, we will always choose to face it trough instead of running away from it. Communication is making a space for discussion and talking about how you feel as opposed to just saying what the other person did wrong. If you can say to a friend, “I got my feelings hurt.” Rather than “You hurt my feelings,” you are going to be able solve the problem much faster.
In dealing with many challenges that friendship will bring to you, try to see them for what they are: small hurdles you need to jump or get through on your way through life. Nothing is so big that it is impossible to get over, and hurt only serves to make us stronger. It s all part of growing up, it happens to everyone, and some day you will look back on all of this and say, “Hard as it was, it make me who I am today. And that a good thing.”

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Life is filled with challenges. As we get older we come to realize that those challenges to the very things than shape us and make us who we are ,it is the same with the challenges that come with friendship .
人生充满了挑战。随着我们逐渐长大，我们也开始意识到，正是这些挑战塑造和造就了我们。友谊同样也具有挑战性。

When we are fared with a challenge, we usually have two choices . we can try to beat it off, or we can decide that the thing presenting the challenge isn’t worth the trouble and call it quits. Although there are certainly times when calling it quits it the right thing to do, in most cases all that is needed is commitment and communicable.
当我们面临挑战时，我们通常会做出两个选择：战胜它，或者我们会认为挑战不值得去麻烦一通而放弃战胜挑战。虽然有时候我们放弃挑战的做法是正确的，但是在多数情况下，战胜挑战所需要的只是承诺和懂得与人交流沟通。

When we are communed to something, it means that no matter how painful or how uncomfortable something is, we will always choose to face it trough instead of running away from it. Communication is making a space for discussion and talking about how you feel as opposed to just saying what the other person did wrong. If you can say to a friend, “I got my feelings hurt.” Rather than “You hurt my feelings,” you are going to be able solve the problem much faster.
当我们做一件事时，就意味着无论这件事是多么的令人痛苦和令人不自在，我们都要去面对它而不是选择逃避。与人交流提供了讨论和谈谈你的感受的余地，而不是为了指出另一方做错了什么。如果你能够对一个朋友说“我的情感受到了伤害”，而不是说“你伤害了我”，那你将能够更加快速地解决问题。

In dealing with many challenges that friendship will bring to you, try to see them for what they are: small hurdles you need to jump or get through on your way through life. Nothing is so big that it is impossible to get over, and hurt only serves to make us stronger. It s all part of growing up, it happens to everyone, and some day you will look back on all of this and say, “Hard as it was, it make me who I am today. And that a good thing.”
在应对很多朋友给你带来的挑战的过程中，你可要弄清楚问题的实质：这些挑战只不过是你人生道路上需要跨过的小障碍而已。没有什么问题大到不可能解决的程度，伤害将只会使我们变的更加坚强。这是一个人成长之路上必不可少的一部分，人人都会碰到。将来某一天你回顾过去时，你会说：“尽管那很难，但却造就了今天的我。那是好事一件。”